The MacHuge generation is in downsizing mode.

The MacHuge generation is in downsizing mode.

March 30, 2013

DOWNSIZING: to reduce in size; especially to design or produce in smaller size.

Due to a semi-shock I got while observing my aunt's "OMG! I am suddenly old (she was 86 all year), I need to do something with this MacMuseum of a house. I don't know where to start so I'll go take a nap" attack, I not only got busy downsizing MY closets and clearing an accumulation of clutter, I got busy looking at my whole life. Where was I spending my time and energy? Where was I finding my happiness? Where were my resources going? What did I want out of this year and beyond? What am I looking forward to? What haven't I done that I'd get a kick out of doing? What things in my life are more like shackles than opportunities?

A house isn’t always forever, and as our lives shift and change, and our children grow and leave, a house can serve more as a reflection of what was than of what we need it to be.

All told, more than 40% of Americans ages 50 to 64 plan to move within the next five years or so, according to the Demand Institute, which is jointly operated by the Conference Board and Nielsen Co.

Dominated by "the many baby boomers who delayed retirement during the recession," prospective downsizers exceed would-be "upsizers" by nearly 3 to 1, says Louise Keely, chief research officer at the Demand Institute.

SQUEEZING INTO TIGHT QUARTERS

One of the biggest problems people encounter after downsizing is also one of the most obvious: It can be crowded.  You're used to all this space, and suddenly, it feels like you're living in a bread box because you've still kept too much.

In recent years, new breeds of Professionals have sprung up to help people declutter, organize and move their possessions. Among their recommendations: 

-sort your belongings a little at a time so you don't get overwhelmed; 

-don't make judgments about what your spouse should or should not keep; 

-and take only what fits your current lifestyle. If you don't entertain anymore, for instance, don't bring more than one serving platter to your new home.

Arrange your  home so each person has some personal space. Everyone should still have his/her own little corner.

 If it does not serve a purpose and it does not bring you joy – let it go! While you don’t need to get radical and downsize, a thorough pass through your belongings can lighten your load immensely. And maybe just maybe clear the path for a new experience or two.