Saturday, May 28, 2016

Digital Detox


The late communications professor Clifford Nass said in a 2010 interview:
“We have scales that allow us to divide up people into people who multitask all the time (checking emails, text messages, etc.) and people who rarely do, and the differences are remarkable. People who multitask all the time can’t filter out irrelevancy. They’re chronically distracted. They just can’t focus and keep on task. They are pretty much mental wrecks.”

Once you are wired for distraction, you crave it.

According to a recent report majority of people would rather go without food and other daily staples than be without their mobile devices, therefore digital detoxing is not as simple as it sounds.[14] Symptoms include lack of concentration, a feeling of irritation if separated from your device or when your battery is running low, looking at your phone first thing when you wake up, ignoring people while you are at your digital device, and reduced productivity resulting from overwhelming use of digital devices.[15]  (Source-Wikipedia)

Many people are realising the importance of digital down time in cultivating healthier lives, achieving ambitious career goals and in generating more productive work habits. 

Digital detox refers to a period of time during which a person refrains from using electronic connecting devices such as smartphones and computers. It is regarded as an opportunity to reduce stress or focus on social interaction in the physical world.

“Cool it. Carve out spaces of silence and solitude in order to do the deep thinking that creates meaning out of chaos. Emptiness is powerful and sacred, the birthplace of new possibility. Make those spaces for yourself.” (Annalie Killian-social media maven)

The benefits of digital detoxing go beyond the ideological. Research has shown that too much time with technology can disrupt sleep patterns, hinder the ability to think deeply and increase stress.

Meanwhile, the opposite of compulsive smartphone use - mindful meditation – has been shown to reduce stress, eliminate insomnia and increase ability to perform under high pressure.

Challenge yourself: Any feelings of panic you may experience about being switched off are habitual. The world is unlikely to fall apart if you don’t answer an email (side note: the people in high-pressure jobs need digital detoxing more than anyone!). Challenge any thoughts about needing to switch on, and draw your mind back to the here and now.

Enjoy
While digital detoxing is a reward in and of itself, the journey can be rocky. Schedule in some time to reward yourself for sticking to the plan, by choosing something you “never” have time for. Enjoy!

Saturday, May 14, 2016

Purging Time!


It’s spring and time for the new, out with the old.

Sometimes, I look but I don’t really SEE. Yesterday, I opened the underwear drawer as I do every day and finally SAW. Saw the hundred pairs of socks, saw the fifty knickers, I’m embarrassed to say how many bras – many of which may have fit at one time.

What was different? It disturbed me (finally). I wash weekly so I just use a certain number of each garment, laundry those things and put them back into the drawer. Every week it’s the same.

Except for yesterday.

So I bought some containers to keep the socks in one place, one for undies albeit leaving no more room for the bras. Hmm, maybe I’ll be hippie and go braless. Ermm, no. They are still hanging from the doorknob, waiting for a home.

On a roll, I went straight for the jugular – my sports stuff. Out with the old, in with a few. I generally wear my stretchy training clothes because I train almost daily. Still, they are not stylish enough to wear to my work (but so comfortable that I’d like to). So, clenching my teeth, I picked five pairs of training pants and five tops. The same with the spin cycling clothes. The rest will soon be in Poland (with assistance from my polish cleaning lady).

Purging is like Christmas!

While going through my things, I re-discovered objects and clothing I had forgotten. I hadn’t seen them at the bottom of the piles. So it seemed like I was getting something new! If I didn’t get a great feeling looking at them or if the clothes didn’t fit anymore (now THAT’S another problem), I got rid of them without arguing to myself that they are still good as new.

Only kids wear things out. It was time to decide.

I’ve resolved to start really looking and deciding if I need everything I own. The painting and drawing things I don’t use every day but I still need them at certain times. The 10 boxes I am keeping “just in case” probably not.

What about you? Is it time to open your beautiful eyes and really SEE? Then go for it!

Just do it.